from The Pettit Correspondent, Vol. 1, No. 3, page 34 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ The following is the last of several pages written by Mary Ann Nicholson (227 Claflin St., Belmont, MA 02178). She suggests that the subject of this sketch may have been a daughter of John and Rebecca (Haines) Pettit. This couple married in Burlington County, NJ on 3 September 1746. Furthermore, she provides evidence that suggests a close relationship between Lucretia and William, the tavern-keeper (see "William and Beulah" p. 6 of the April, `88 issue and related articles in the July, `88 issue). Seemingly, it is this William that helped administer the estate of Lucretia's first husband. Lucretia Pettit Haines Moore Bowker By Mary Ann Nicholson Lucretia Pettit married three times. She married first by license 23 November 1767 Thomas Haines, born about 1735 and died by 11 June 1781, son of George and Margaret (Lamb) Haines. She married in July 1783 Thomas Moore and in August 1797 Joseph Bowker as his third wife. Thomas Haines was disowned by Burlington Monthly Meeting for marrying out of unity, then for mustering and learning the art of war in July 1776. Lucretia and daughter Mary had been received into membership by that meeting upon their request in June 1774 (Hinshaw, 2:228). Thomas enlisted 7 January 1777 in Capt. John Anderson's Co. of 4th Jersey Regiment of Foot as a private, but deserted 28 March 1777, probably in time for the spring planting as many farmers did. He was living near Vincentown. Thomas and his brother George had inherited land from their father and Thomas sold his share to George 6 April 1771. In 1794 George sold this land for seven shillings sixpence to John Hollinshead, John Bishop, Hudson Burr, William Crick, Joseph Burr, John Butterworth, George Woolston, Thomas Moore, John Woolston, John Burr and Joseph Champion "for purpose of a school on the high road from Mt. Holly to Vincentown." Thomas Haines died intestate and letters of administration were granted John Haines, Joseph Eayre of Evesham, William Pettit of Northampton and Lucretia Haines 11 June 1781. She made her mark. The men signed and duly affirmed (New Jersey Archives, 35:171; Liber 73:209). [Quakers affirmed rather than swore oaths.] William Pettit's ledger showed that "Lucrecia" [Lucretia] Haines on 15 October 1781 "had of the Estate's rye, seven bushels." This presumably referred to her late husband's estate. 9 December 1781, "Lucretia Haines debtor for 70 pounds of beef, rye, oats, corn, threshing." There followed similar entries for rye on 26 January, 23 and 28 March 1782 (p. 34, 36). Lucretia Haines' account from 23 August 1782 to October 1783 had entries for "butter, taller [tallow], wheat, leather for shoes, coffee, sugar, mutton, beef, and threshing." When she married again her second husband would assume the responsibility for her debts and assets. In March 1784, there are three entries "settled with Lucrecia Moore debtor for nails, shoe leather, etc. œ12.4.8; œ14.14.4" and a final "settled with Lurecia Moore credit œ15." (Pettit Ledger at Burlington County Historical Society, pp. 40, 41). Lucretia married out of unity and by license 29 July 1783 Thomas Moor(e), son of Thomas and Miriam (Ridgway) Moore (NJA, 22:266). He was of Northampton Township when he died intestate before 24 February 1797. Inventory taken 3 March showed his estate was valued at œ333.7.6. Lucretia was administrator with Thomas Burr and Thomas Doron bondsmen (NJA, 38:257). "Lucrecy" Moore married a third time by license 20 August 1797 Joseph Bowker whom she survived (H. Stanley Craig, Burlington County Marriages [Merchantville, N.J., 1932], 27). Joseph Bowker of Northampton Township, made his will 30 October 1802, proved 11 December 1802. He left his wife $40 above her dower (NJA, 39:52). It is not known when she died. On 27 October 1797, her sons Thomas and Samuel Haines "being out of the wardship of their Guardian in Soccage," chose Joseph Burr their guardian (NJA, 35:171; 38:154; Minutes of Orphans Court, Burl., Bk. 1:245,313).On 4 November 1797, "Charles Moore, ward son of Thomas Moore of Burl Co. deceased, being out of wardship of his Guardian in Soccage makes choice of Job Jones Guardian" (NJA, 38:256). Children by first marriage (surname Haines): i. Mary, b. Sept. 1768; d. 22 May, 1849; m. ca. 1790 William Stockton. ii. Thomas, d. in Cuba, ca. 1797-1800; unmarried [J.W. Haines' notes]. iii. Samuel, b. ca. 1780; d. 1864; m. 1811 Hannah Eayre. Child by second marriage (surname Moore): iv. Charles, b. ca. 1784; d. 1829; m. 1805 Mary Burr.